It is so shocking how someone can be so overwhelmed and emotional about someone they were never even in a relationship with. Never screamed at me over the phone, in fact we only argued a few times in the 8 years we were together and always respectfully. I read about the three parts of a relationship passion, intimacy, and commitment. Never talking about commitment but focusing on passion and intimacy. These two without commitment mean nothing. Anyone can be intimate and passionate with someone but without the commitment and the connection it really isn't worth any more than the sweat as it rolls off your bodies. When there is a true connection the commitment and passion should come first, followed by the intimacy. I know I am not an expert not even close, I am worse at relationships than anyone else. I believe what I believe and I have already made a commitment, and I think I have doomed myself to a very long and lonely life.
I am a rock... crumbling because I cannot move.
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